As soon as I picked her up, she was asleep in my arms.
The neurologist told me that Adi can't have any physical therapy until we clear this up. I, being too efficient for my own good, called Step by Step to report the findings.
Yesterday the neurologist called back and said the x-rays showed no breaks or healing breaks in Adel's bones. But now, Step by Step wouldn't take me on my word, because since a doubt came up, they have to clear it with the doctor in writing. Which is no big deal... but it cost me a whole bunch of extra phone calls that I could have avoided.
And the question remains... why can't Adel lift her arms? Why does she react in pain when her collar bone is touched? And why no reflexes in her arms?
Poor Adi stayed asleep through the transfer from my arms to the stroller, then to the car seat, out of the car seat and into my arms, being carried to the ENT's office, and then being transferred from my arms to my mother in law's lap. Whew! That was one tired girlie!
I'll summarize our ENT trip briefly. Don't want to relive it. In short, he's clearly not trained to handle kids. He didn't even have an exam table for babies. Dunno why they even accepted us.
The visit included him grabbing my hands and roughly poking them into Adel's head and body to show me how to hold her (my insistence that he just explain what to do fell on deaf ears until I screamed at him), which caused Adel to cry hysterically and wriggle (she sat perfectly and didn't make a peep at the audiologist who did the same exams), him not being able to check Adel at all and lying about what he supposedly saw, him pushing ear wax deep into the canal and refusing to clean it out, eventually cleaning it out when we told him we will go back to the audiologist tomorrow (he got scared that his lie will be uncovered.)
It was just awful. Never going back THERE again.
It accomplished absolutely nothing. At least this was the first appointment where no new issues were discovered. Heh heh. Not that there aren't any issues... I don't know. But this guy didn't uncover any, so that's a first.
(Some black humor... just laugh along.
which ENT was that? I hope not Bendlestein.
ReplyDeleteNo, some weird one in NYU.
ReplyDeleteDo you have any recommendations? Apparently, we are looking to switch.
I used Dr. Goldsmith, but there is usually a long wait for him. Vastola on 9th avenue is supposed to be good but no bedside manner.
ReplyDeleteI'll ask my mother for some recommendations-we went to someone before Goldsmith who didn't accept our insurance, and he was also very good but wanted to take out my tonsils, so we wanted a second opinion of someone who did take our insurance this way surgery is covered.
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ReplyDeleteand don't use bendelstein, the guy didn't even clean the scope before he stuck it up my nose, Goldsmith cleaned it and numbed my nose....
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